You can learn to strengthen your will by staring at the candle flame for as long as you can till you become one with it. When your mind wanders, keep bringing it back to the flame.
We do not often find people who have been raised to use their higher faculties. Most People don’t even know that they even posses higher faculties that are just waiting to be developed. Once we learn to develop these faculties, we can use them to create the life we want.